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If youâre doing all the right things but still feeling stuck, this post explains why â and how to shift it.
Weâve all been there. You book the healing session, light the candles, chant the mantras, call in the light⌠and then? Nothing. Crickets. No shift. No miracle. No cosmic glow-up.
And if youâre anything like me, thatâs when the inner spiral may begin:
Am I broken? Am I blocking it? Why canât I receive this?
Hereâs the truth that hit me like a Divine download the other day: healing doesnât bypass free will. Not ever.
Not even when you want it.
Not even when a part of you is crying out for it.
If a deeper part of your being â usually the ego, the protector, the one that survived the hard stuff â doesnât feel safe enough to let it in? That healing wonât land. Not yet.
But donât worry. That doesnât mean youâre stuck. It means youâre sovereign.
And sovereignty is the starting point for true transformation.
The Real Reason Healing Gets âBlockedâ
Letâs reframe this:
Energy and quantum healing never fail. Energy doesnât vanish. It just reroutes. It waits patiently in the wings like a Divine update waiting for your internal âInstall Nowâ click.
So what causes the delay?
- Your ego isnât sabotaging you â itâs protecting you. Itâs operating off old programming that says, âIf we change, we might die.â
- Unconscious beliefs act as gatekeepers. Even if your soul says YES, if your subconscious screams NO, the healing gets deferred.
- Desire isnât the same as readiness. Wanting to heal is beautiful. But willingness to shift the beliefs that block it? Thatâs where the real magick happens.
How to Start Receiving the Healing Youâre Calling In
You donât have to fight your ego or force the healing to work. Instead, try these aligned, loving steps that help soften your inner resistance and open the door for real, embodied transformation.
1. Name the Belief Gatekeepers
Grab a journal or voice recorder. Ask yourself:
- âWhat do I really believe about healing?â
- âWhat feels true deep down, even if I wish it didnât?â
Write without censoring. Let the survival code speak. It might sound like:
- âNothing works for me.â
- âI donât deserve to feel better.â
- âIf I heal, I wonât know who I am anymore.â
These arenât bad thoughts. Theyâre breadcrumb trails to the parts of you that still need your love.
2. Befriend the Protector Parts
Close your eyes. Breathe. Then ask:
- âWhich part of me is afraid of healing?â
- âWhat are you trying to protect me from?â
Let that part speak. You may be surprised â sometimes itâs a scared 5-year-old, sometimes itâs a version of you that had to harden to survive. Whatever shows up, greet it with reverence, not resistance.
3. Rehearse New Beliefs Somatically
Donât slap affirmations over fear like spiritual wallpaper. That just creates more dissonance. Instead, try bridge statements that feel plausible, like:
- âItâs becoming safer to believe healing is possible.â
- âSome part of me is starting to soften.â
- âI donât have to believe yet. I just have to be willing to believe.â
Breathe those in. Let your nervous system try them on like new skin.
4. Anchor Small Proof Points
Your mind might be waiting for a thunderbolt miracle. But miracles often start as whispers.
Notice:
- A slightly easier breath
- A moment of unexpected peace
- A decision that felt aligned instead of obligated
Track them. Celebrate them. These are quantum confirmation pings from your future self.
5. Create a Ritual of Willingness
Before any healing session, self-guided or with a practitioner, try saying aloud:
âI allow this healing to land in whatever way my system is ready to receive today. I release the need to control how. I am willing to be surprised.â
This statement is pure alchemy. It tells your system: Weâre safe now. We donât have to armor up. We can open â just a little.
You Are Not Broken â You Are Becoming
Hereâs the real medicine:
If youâve been struggling to receive healing, you are not failing.
You are not spiritually defective.
You are not too damaged to shift.
Youâre in process â and process is sacred.
The part of you still gripping tightly is the part that once saved your life.
But now, itâs safe to choose something different.
Now, itâs safe to receive.
So next time the healing doesnât “work,” try asking:
What part of me doesnât believe this is possible yet?
And then gently, reverently, begin the work of showing that part a new way.
Because the miracle doesnât come when you force the outcome.
It comes when your whole self finally whispers:
Okay. I think Iâm ready now.
đ Ready to finally let the miracles land?
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